Tell me, how did you find your soulmate? Did you really manage to do it through dating apps? For a very long time I avoided dating apps and tried to find my soulmate in other ways, but it didn't work out.
Why have you avoided dating apps for so long? Are you afraid of something or what? I am the same person who managed to find a soulmate on a dating app. I advise you to choose just any of the apps https://soulmatcher.app/blog/5-best-dating-apps-in-chicago-find-your-perfect-match/ and fill out your profile, but very high-quality and upload an attractive photo! The most important thing is your profile, and everything else is not so important anymore. If you want, I can advise you what to write in your description.