Why do I feel like people aren't listening to me? | Forum

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Long Phillip
Long Phillip May 13
 I often feel invisible during group chats or even one-on-one. Is it something I’m doing, or am I just overthinking it?
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Lewis Adalyn
Lewis Adalyn May 13
I’ve definitely been there, feeling like I’m speaking but no one is actually "hearing" me. I used to think I was just boring, but then I read a post on the Wedaf blog about https://blog.wedaf.com/...ed-in-conversations/ and realized it’s often about timing and body language. I started practicing better eye contact and waiting for a natural pause rather than forcing my way in. From my experience, once you understand the underlying reasons—like "conversational narcissism" from others or your own low volume—it becomes much easier to fix. It really boosted my confidence once I stopped taking it so personally!